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    I have one son age 11 soon 12. but he is so against going to Oz. We have only just started to look into this seriously and have done the assessment form, but he always says he is annoyed at us for making such a big decision and moving so far away, does anyone have the problem, I feel I,m alone with this, and is there anyone who would leave him a message to entice him.

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    :? Hi Michelle, just saw your message. Have you taken your son to Australia and shown him what it's all about? We took our kids last year and although one's too young to know any different, the other absolutely loved it and cried all the way home from Sydney! What more can I say?! We started the whole process earlier this year and hoping to get visa granted next month and fly over in Feb.

    Zoe :)

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    Guest michellematthews2005

    hiya, My husband has been there, but me and my son haven't. I always follow my heart, and thats what I,m gonna do, but my son is so stubbern. Where in Oz are you going?

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    8) Off to sunny Sydney. got a little bit of family there and a couple we met here in Carlisle who've gone home to Sydney (he's Aus and she's Scot) so got a bit of a network to lean on -maybe move on up into Queensland in time though - fancy a quieter life! :wink:

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    Guest Angie

    Hi Michelle

    I have 4 children 4, 9 (10 next week) 12, and 14. They are all excited about going, its me who's nervous but if your son would like to talk to either my boys feel free they are 9 (nearly 10) and 12.

    Good luck

    Angie

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