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Fran96

smoking and relationships

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Hello, I need advice. I began the relationships with the man who smokes, I have an allergic reaction to the smoke. I asked him to quit or do it not at home, but he ignored this and said that this addiction is stronger than him. I understood that is not a reason for a break-up, because I love him. But I think that is a reason to revise my priorities and make changes in these relationships. Finally, we found a compromise. He started vaping instead of smoking cigarettes, it was like a good decision. I found some information about vaping and second-hand vaping on special sites, maybe you know VapingDaily, AddictionResource or something like that, where people say that vaping is better than smoking for health. So I don't know what to do. Should I force him to quit at all or to let him do what he wants??? My main problem in loving him too much, I am afraid not to notice when these relationships can turn to abusive for me or him. Thank you for your response.

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You wanted your partner to stop smoking to solve a problem with an allergic reaction and this issue has been resolved. So I'm not really sure what you're asking?

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5 hours ago, Fran96 said:

Hello, I need advice. I began the relationships with the man who smokes, I have an allergic reaction to the smoke. I asked him to quit or do it not at home, but he ignored this and said that this addiction is stronger than him. I understood that is not a reason for a break-up, because I love him. But I think that is a reason to revise my priorities and make changes in these relationships. Finally, we found a compromise. He started vaping instead of smoking cigarettes, it was like a good decision. I found some information about vaping and second-hand vaping on special sites, maybe you know VapingDaily, AddictionResource or something like that, where people say that vaping is better than smoking for health. So I don't know what to do. Should I force him to quit at all or to let him do what he wants??? My main problem in loving him too much, I am afraid not to notice when these relationships can turn to abusive for me or him. Thank you for your response.

Where are you posting from and what is your nationality Fran?

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On 01/03/2019 at 08:14, newjez said:

Where are you posting from and what is your nationality Fran?

What does her nationality have to do with anything ?


I want it all, and I want it now.

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5 hours ago, Torres3 said:

You should quit smoking.

Why are you dragging up an old post???

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