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    On 12/12/2017 at 19:10, EmmaGiggles85 said:

    Thanks! Currently very busy in university at the mo so when i come on here there are lots of messages that have been written and i am trying to trapse through them all haha
    Doesnt help that most of them are just arguments about the most irrelevant stuff and im just scrolling past with the popcorn 🤣🤣

    Good luck with your uni work 😊 yah if you can try to ignore the PS'ers there's some great information and advice on this website. All the best!

    I believe that one of the modern forms of bravery is to say, OK I will start again from scratch.

    Doing something new, learning new things requires great strength, great humility and great courage.

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    On 12/12/2017 at 09:10, EmmaGiggles85 said:

    Thanks! Currently very busy in university at the mo so when i come on here there are lots of messages that have been written and i am trying to trapse through them all haha
    Doesnt help that most of them are just arguments about the most irrelevant stuff and im just scrolling past with the popcorn 🤣🤣

    Quite honestly you get as much crap from both 'sides', both will give you very valuable information AND both will give you wildly inaccurate information as well. 

    Happy in UTOPIA.

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