Jacaranda Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 Hi all,well I've just returned from Adelaide last week,after spending nearly 6 mths there,spending quality time with my Mum.Yesterday I recieved the call everyone dreads,that Mum had passed away yesterday.She was 83,and had a myriad of health issues,but remained in her own home,and for the most part,managed ok.I am now flying back to Adelaide tomorrow night (Sat).Just feel so sad right now.:cry:xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ali Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 Oh Melza, I am so very sorry to hear your news. I hope some of the memories you made in those last months will give you comfort and raise a smile :hug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyHeart Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 No words can help melza but sending my deepest sympathy to you. I am glad and I bet Mum was too that you had that special time together. :hug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacaranda Posted August 15, 2014 Author Share Posted August 15, 2014 Thanks Ali and HH (sorry HH your like button is missing atm)Yes truly grateful I had that time with Mum.I nearly did'nt go at one point,but so glad I did.xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 O Melza, so very very sorry for your loss. It was lovely that you could be there with her for so long. As Ali said, memories to carry with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fisher1 Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 That's a shame. Be glad you had that special time. I remember flying back to Belgium from the UK after my dad died. I felt as though the world had ended. Wishing you courage and sending you sympathy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacaranda Posted August 15, 2014 Author Share Posted August 15, 2014 Thankyou xxxx Just want to get this bloody(sorry)horrible journey over and done with.Just can't bear the thought of it right now tbh! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Que Sera Sera Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 Oh My lovely I'm so sorry to hear your news. Losing your Mum is just so painful but you have spent some lovely time with her. Take care of yourself my thoughts are with you.:hug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fisher1 Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 Take lots of tissues. You will get through it and it will get easier. Hugs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest30085 Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 :hug::hug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Andy Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 Hi all,well I've just returned from Adelaide last week,after spending nearly 6 mths there,spending quality time with my Mum.Yesterday I recieved the call everyone dreads,that Mum had passed away yesterday.She was 83,and had a myriad of health issues,but remained in her own home,and for the most part,managed ok.I am now flying back to Adelaide tomorrow night (Sat).Just feel so sad right now.:cry:xxx Sorry to hear about that Melza, i lost my mum in March at 64 and the pain is awful at first but will start to ease slowly, best of luck with the funeral arrangements. Was nice you spent quality time with her before she died :hug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caramac Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 I'm so sorry, Melza. It doesn't matter how old or sick they are they're still your parents. It must really hurt to lose your Mum, but I'm glad you managed to spend so much time with her before she died. I'm sure, in time, that will be a comfort to you. I'm sorry you're having to endure that flight. :hug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fifi69 Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 Just want to say sorry for your loss at losing your mum Melza... Its a horrible journey to make Hun, flying across the world. i know your a spiritual person, I hope it brings you some comfort at this sad time. like Andy, I've just been thru it, but it was my dad. My words would be talk about whenever you need to, even if its just on here. Getting your jumbled out thoughts and rambles out, helps a bit. it all takes time, please take care of yourself xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacaranda Posted August 15, 2014 Author Share Posted August 15, 2014 (edited) Thanks all for your kind comments,it really means alot to me.I'll be ok once this flight is over and done with.Considering I just got back from Adelaide last week,I was'nt expecting to be heading back there quite so soon.I knew when I said goodbye to my Mum last week,that was the last time I would see her.Hated leaving that day as well tbh! Edited August 15, 2014 by Jacaranda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fifi69 Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 Thanks all for your kind comments,it really means alot to me.I'll be ok once this flight is over and done with.Considering I just got back from Adelaide last week,I was'nt expecting to be heading back there quite so soon.I knew when I said goodbye to my Mum last week,that was the last time I would see her.Hating leaving that day as well tbh! That must have been so difficult for you both, but please don't feel guilty, we just don't know what's around the corner... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quoll Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 Oh Melza! I'm so sorry for your loss. We never really think that the last time will be The Last Time, do we? At least you've spent 6 quality months with her (((hugs))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fish.01 Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 Thinking of you Melza. Fingers crossed you have some comforting moments with family and friends during the trip. Let us know how you are if you can. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Irishgirl1 Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 So sorry for your loss Melza, thinking of you and all your family at this sad time, big hugs xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tonyman Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 So sorry to hear this Melza..........:hug:........ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maidensarah Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 Sorry to hear that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacaranda Posted August 15, 2014 Author Share Posted August 15, 2014 Thanks again for the kind comments.Lost Dad 20 yrs ago,and now Mum,it does'nt quite feel right without any parents now!:cry: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lindor Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 Aah Melza, I'm sorry to hear your sad news. :hug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
louisella Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 so sorry to hear your news @Melza , deepest sympathies to you and your family xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
3FatCats Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 Hi all,well I've just returned from Adelaide last week,after spending nearly 6 mths there,spending quality time with my Mum.Yesterday I recieved the call everyone dreads,that Mum had passed away yesterday.She was 83,and had a myriad of health issues,but remained in her own home,and for the most part,managed ok.I am now flying back to Adelaide tomorrow night (Sat).Just feel so sad right now.:cry:xxx Big hugs, no words are enough.... Xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nikey Posted August 15, 2014 Share Posted August 15, 2014 I'm so sorry.:hug: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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