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Guest posted a topic in Aussie ChatSince falling in love with my wonderful aussie husband, we have been on a roller coaster that has lasted almost 6 years. The last eight months have been spent stressing about a spouse visa which I am finally just about ready to put my papers in for( in London)! I have a CXR and medical this Thursday which has caused no end of worrying because I have smoked since I was 17 and stressing about this visa has only caused me to smoke more. Today I have given up, gone running and eaten the entire contents of the fridge in a bid not to smoke! So if my visa is granted I will be one very porky English wife arriving in Melbourne but at least I will be smoke free! Then it hit me after reading so many other people's posts and just how stressed out we all are about these visa's, is it worth worrying so much it causes me to feel ill? Yes I want to be with my husband but I am not going to stress anymore, if they don't grant me a visa.... it's not the end of the world as I used to think it would be. Yes it would be terrible but now we are out of the dark winter months, England is not that bad a place to live. It could be worse! I love my job, I look after older people with dementia and I love to chew the fat about the good old days when England was great! And if my husband (who qualifies for an Irish passport) really couldn't stand living here, well that's life. NO WORRIES, that's what I say!!!! (maybe being smoke free has really got to me!). Oh and I failed the IELTS and I don't care either, I know I speak English proper good rite! So to all of you from my heart ... Don't worry, be happy. Maybe our destiny is pre determined though the thought of another winter in England does chill me to the bone! Love to all wherever you are xxx :biggrin:
Well, ok it might not be a major stress compared to smoe people but it is for me, I just had the police check forms in the post tray at work when I read a post by someone..... I have filled in 3 subject access requests for all three counties I've lived in and paid the £10, now I am reading that this isn't sufficient for immigration and you need to pay £35 for some certificate or other??? PLEASE PLEASE can someone clear this up, have I filled the right ones in and should I put them back in the post or have I got the wrong ones???????
Hi All I just need to let off some steam- to people that can relate to how Im feeling:arghh: We set our Skilled Visa 136 Priority, off to Adelaide got there 27th August 2007, so far we've heard nothing- 20 weeks today!:realmad: Chased Agent again today told me that ASPC havent got record on system of our application but this is because they havent sent us acknowledgement letter- they had system fault and loads of application arent being receipted. The ASPC are only receipting application end July, but people on hear have got theres-so whats going on? Im so fed up with waiting, I was hoping we'd hear by now and then Ive read on PIO that it SIX MONTHS for case officer. I dont want to get meds or PC dones but Im feel sooo down:no:. It doesnt help my stress when friends and family keep asking how things are going, I know they mean well but I just wish things would start moving. Sorry to go on and I just remember Kiss FM said its the most depressing day today, well it feels like it to me- but then tomorrow should be bl***y brilliant:err: Debsx