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Guest posted a topic in Visa Chathi every one, i am desperate for peoples views, opinions, advice, reassurance its wrecking my head i am 24 years old shane is 25, i met him in oz 14th feb 07 when i was on a hol working visa in oz. we were seeing ech other for a while then i moved in to his rented house in june 07 lived there til jan 08 as visa ran out.we had decided we loved each other and wanted to be together forever and got engaged xmas day 2007. stayed incontact via mobile(unfortunately pre paid mobile so cant get phone records)like 4 times a day, some emails, letters and lots of sms. he came over to meet my family and friends may 08 they loved him:wink:. we went travelling around euroup then again the sad time came he had to go back to oz middle of july 08. again the same contact i just saved hard and went back to oz on 15th october 2008, i was soo happy to be with my shaney, our lil house and animals, and mates. we went to tassie met his mum and sisters they thre an engagement party for us , it was just bliss. but i came home a few days ago, cuz of tourise visa, came back xmas eve, i was absolutley devestated and am really finding it hard to be away from him this time. so we are strating the process, gthering info for defacto sponsership 309. please i would really appreciate any advice, views , experiences , to tell us a deffo no i dunno what ever you think really, or things to make our case stronng enuf. also when i went back to oz i got stopped by immi officer he said dont use an migration agent , cost you lots of dollers , if ur relationship is genuine and have photos and letters to each other no problemo. so am not using one ok we havent lived together for 12 months but have been in a reltioship for over 12 months, and are engaged, to be married to share our future together although we ant to wait til we have enough money to apay for flights for family and friends whether it be in oz ur uk ok so evidence -corrispondance and pay slips to me at his address from when i moved in to his place june 2007.(we didnt have joint rent bills)its all in his name although i did pay my share so should proove that i was living with him . -phtots and a few xmas card to us both for my time there -emails, letters, envelopes to eachother whilst we have been separated and a few home fone records from my parents line -shanes flight details to uk -our travlling flight and train details and plenty of phtot -photos of us and my family -photos of us and my mates -my flight details to oz -flight details for us both to tassie to meet his family -photos of us and his family -enagament party invitaion -engagment cards -engagement announcement in newspaper -plenty more photos of us both -stat dec from our neighbour who we are good friends with and see eachother every day -waiting on stat decs from his mum and sisters, and a mate who knew us from beginning when we first met eachother -waiting on support letters from my parents -i also got a letter from my last employer in oz to say i had worked with them before and they be happy to offer me permanent position if got this visa -xmas cards and evelopes adressed to us both for xmas 08 - a wedding invitation from my friend to us both and a thanyou for attending letter to us both. -we set up a joint ozzy account about a month ago for our savings gona do all police checks and meds ready. i desparately want to get over there with him and start our future together its killing me and will break my heart if we are refused, so please any any help :spinny: im sorry for writting so much, just had to let it all out hahaha, im glad i have found this site , we can all help each toher, we are all going through immigration stuff, and know what each toher is going through. ahhhrrrr its doing my head in i feel like well no i actually am putting my life on hold until al this is sorted out.i wana start living it with shane its all i have been thinking about and worrying about since i first left oz on 19th jan 08. im sure many of you worry and think about ur migration issues every day too, its a stressful business.well i am really scared cuz i want it so bad to be with my shaney and back to our life in oz with our lil hippies house and our pet goat, cat, dog and four fish hehe. thankyou soo much