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its a club for handsome members--no women allowed (our ears need a rest)--ill be the first member--so feel free to join--we can talk about real issues,and stuff--also we can set up a secret society called the HMC (handsome members club)--i know this is a multi sex site, but it would be respectfull to the HMC if you girlys stayed of this thread--i bet you cant,you just have to know whats going on:biggrin:--so to help ill put up a thread to keep you out of trouble:wubclub:

Hi all, I am asking my self am I crazy, I have a great job, wonderful home, a loving wife, and cherished children. But since last weekend the wife and I have now made the decision to moved down under. Southern Australia fever has us gripped and now in the cold light of day the realisation of the daunting task hits me! i'm sure it will be worth it in the end. :biggrin: Oh this is my way of saying hello

Hi all, Before you read this i would ask you not to make the typical judgements that i have seen on other forums before that all men who pay child maintenance but arnt happy about it are b***tards. im going to keep details of myself to a minimum so i can remain as anonymous as possible and thanks in advance for any advice. I am planning to move to Australia in the near future to begin a new life there and i cant wait!! the only thing which i have a big question mark about and i've found it difficult to find information about is maintenance payments and where i legally stand. to cut a long story short, my ex used getting pregnant as a way for me not to dump her after the "suicide attempts" stopped working. since then the child is used as bribery tool. after many "discussions" she decided to keep it fully knowing i didnt want anything to do with her or the child, she though that the decision was entirely her choice and up untill i told her even afterwards i wanted her out of my life she was booked into get an abortion...i am having to pay maintenance now because the CSA dont care what the circumstances are surrounding how the child came to be, i know it takes 2 to make it happen but it should also take 2 to make an adult decision weather it is right to bring a child into the world and in my opinion, she knew what the implications were before she decided to keep it and she knew she would be doing it as a single mum (this is the point i ask not to make a judgement, if it was a loving relationship i wouldnt have walked away...it has turned out i have been granted a restraining order to stop her contacting me so thats the extent of the problems i have had). Anyway, the English system is that i have to pay which i have been doing. what i want to know is what happens when i move to Aus? i've read mixed things where the UK CSA have no jurisdiction but others who say she can still get money out of me? Sorry for rambling on but any advice is much appreciated. Thanks.