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I feel for you. It's the hardest subject to broach, because, in the end, it could destroy what you have built and hoped for. I wish you success in coming to a decision.

I have 3 children, a wife starting a new career path and I despise being here. I know that I will eventually leave them all, probably once the last child has formed their own life plan in around 10 years.

Feel your pain, and hope it gets a little better. We left for a job and life change, as some family members had moved over. You would have thought it would make it easier. But I can't bare it here, all I want to do is go home and after many years there's absolutely no chance my relationship would survive.

(Amazing….I can only describe that the feeling of being back where I belong has been like a weight lifted of my shoulders…like I have been released from a prison, like I had never left…really…I knew that somethings will have changed, the people I knew would have a few more wrinkles, houses and roads would now be in places that they where not in before, but on the whole ten years have not really changed that much, since being back I spend all my time when I am not working exploring…not only does it help to keep my mind occupied, it helps with mental health to have an interest outside of work, something totally separate...) 'Released from a prison'... really pleased you're back where you belong. I suspect I'll have to wait at least 10 more years for that moment, and I've already been here 12. Good luck to you.