Our children are 1, 9 and 11 so still quite young and we wanted to do it before the dreaded teenage years.
One if the companies did initially offer the 482 visa but for the sake of our family security I would not want to go unless it was for pr. I wouldn't want to risk having to uproot the kids in a few years if we then couldn't get pr as our 11 year old will be at an important time school wise then.
I'm not upset they've said they won't visit I dont expect them to if they truly don't want to, same as I don't think they should try and guilt me into staying here just to make them happy.