Hello - a newbie here. My husband and I have lived in Australia for 17 years - I actually came here with my family back in 1972 as a Ten Pound Pom..but had to go back to the UK to meet other half - quite a few years later. Found I had kissed lots of Australian frogs, but had to be with a Pommy Prince at the end of the day! Anyway, digressing. My husband literally hates it here and always has....I'm a bit 50/50 - especially as my family live here - and having my inlaws 12k away isn't such a bad thing!! But we have have had two dogs in that time..our boy left us last year at 14 and our girl is 12 in a couple of weeks time. We have decided to wait until she goes before we return to UK. My point I guess is that I always feel so horrible, because being here basically sits on her longevity. I know what everyone thinks...why not take her back with you..but like Kindredelf we would never forgive ourselves if anything happened to her in transit. So, we sit in our little house every day, not really living, just marking time if that makes sense! No interest in this country any more.
By the way, went home to South Coast in December...most of the way of life was awful..but it was such a familiar, cosy, appropriate awful....made us more homesick if anything.
Sorry to ramble on..just I see so many posts on here that replicate how we feel....
Thanks....