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  1. One thing Australians are big on is volunteering, there are lots of community events over Xmas. These will help you feel connected.
  2. So many variables Qld is huge, remote, regional rural very different lifestyles too. Rural will depend entirely on which part of the state you end up in, big difference being rural in the SE corner versus the central coast or FNQ. Personally, I love rural living, having moved to Gold Coast although it's spectacular and very convenient and the world seems to want to move here, I can't wait to move back to a rural/remote area. As for wildlife don't stress about it, easy to get ontop off and all part of it.
  3. Have you asked them (parents)? I felt guilty for moving away, especially for the inlaws as their family unit all lives on top of each other. My parents packed my bag and drove us to the airport smiling it has been over 25 years on and off, one day I asked my father in law, "What's your thoughts on us moving back?" His response surprised me, "What do you need to stay away?" In his mind and her mum's moving away was the one thing they were proudest of, it is difficult they admitted at times but they are happy we have done something else. They love the fact we have lived all over and their daughter has experienced a different life from what was expected.
  4. Always focused on super, there are other ways to secure income in the future. Income streams have been a focus for us since our early 30s, super is just one of them but frankly not one of any merit. I have always disliked being told that we must give money over to a super fund and to be given conditions on how, where and when it's accessed, I understand the advantages for some but for us who tend to bounce about, there are better options.
  5. Lived in SE Asia for 14 years in an amazing community (a small island in Thailand), Australia for 10 FNQ and now GC, and come from the UK. Still feel unsettled, especially having just visited the UK for the first time in 7 years. Had I never left UK would I have felt the same?, I wouldn't have known first hand the opportunities, alternatives, or experiences out there. It changes a person, it changes views, and opens up the mind. It's a conundrum of sorts would I have been better off not knowing and feeling like this, or better off experiencing what I have? Short answer I wouldn't change my life to date It has been mostly incredible as a result of leaving. Does it leave a person unsettled, for many yes, but it also means you have a past history of being courageous or taking the opportunity that many wouldn't remember that person moving forward.
  6. The TV literally had the migrants on a loop when I was back, the story rotating from hotels being full, to the new barge then statistics of how many arrived.I spent 3 weeks on teh south coast near Folkstone, the coast guard sat mid-channel every day. The news hardly touched on the fallout from Brexit, the Tories awarding billions in contracts that evaporated to their mates, the councils going bankrupt, and the NHS issues. However, they did seem to villainize the same people applauded during the corvid for having the audacity to strike over crap pay and conditions. Yes, it's an issue with people coming over but glaringly obvious that these people are being pushed to front and centre of public attention. A more cynical mind could think it was a distraction from other issues. My cousin summed it all up, living here is better if you watch your finances and turn your TV off. Trust your own eyes and not what you're told to see.
  7. All considerations, I am looking at NI and set ball rolling a while back have been told we would get an answer on contributions by the end of October.
  8. I have been lucky to be a UK and Australian citizen. Spent 9 years in Cairns, and a couple in SE QLD (GC) before that 15 years in SE Asia. The last time I went Uk was 7 years ago, and well it messed with my head, reconnecting and feelings of familiarity. COVID happened, and life changed. We moved I started a business and well became somewhat settled. I have just spent a month back there, same feelings are stirred up. I miss my family terribly, they are dispersed all over the UK , Cyprus (parents), and Canada but accessible if in the UK as opposed to Aus. Our flights to the UK cost a fortune compared to pre covid, The UK had changed, and there was a noticeable difference in the poverty gap. My old grounds (Thurrock) are now classed as some of the most economically deprived parts of the UK the council has gone bust, the roads in SE corner are well shocking, and the country is noticeably different post covid and Brexit. I won't talk about the need for everything requiring an app cost of living compared to Aus nor the health system but all a negative overall. However some parts are thriving, and there is still a buzz to London that is unique, there is a lot I prefer about living there we had incredible weather (although I suspect we got lucky overall I don't mind the UK climate) It is decision time I now know that I would have to live elsewhere in the UK than where I had imagined, work what to do the wages are not comparable, there is a possibility I can transfer my business ( MH training) Glad we returned as expensive as it all was, plenty to think about, recognise now how Australian I have become, and the gloss of rose glasses is gone any decision we make will be with current experience in mind. 50 years young, no kids to worry about just a house to organise and sell/rent really, or make eth most of Aus and spend retirement time in Uk but Q is will it be too late by then? Either way, we are lucky and thankful for the choices.
  9. 8 years in Cairns and 2 in SEQ GC. For me it's like comparing apples and oranges, SEQ is nowhere near as laid back, the climate I prefer down here summers up FNQ are brutal (I lived in SE Asia for 16 years so used to heat ) Crime wise it's everywhere, just much more visible, petty and annoying up FNQ, lots of antisocial behavior in both Cairns and Townsville. Health service-wise, no comparison between FNQ & SE Qld there is much more access to specialist procedures in SE Qld, but that also depends if you have a private health fund or not. In FNQ there is 1 oncall (yup you read that right 1) emergency helicopter covering Cairns to the tip of cape york and out west, a second one is in TV covering south to Mackay. SC is a good spot, We are looking at the hinterland in that region as an alternative, and between the middle of FNQ and GC will see
  10. Both states are huge, and offer vastly different experiences depending on where you want to live, lifestyle, climate, opportunities, etc QLD out west, Far North, Gulf country, hinterlands, or the SE corner completely different, Same for WA except it is SW corner.
  11. Gary H

    Housing - Moving Back

    First up by whatever means get yourself registered somehow at a Uk address, technically you should be there, but you can always work out a way with good friends or family. For example, cheap mobile plan, Uk driving license, Look up NI number and move to address, any RN status renew at the new address. The more you can create a digital footprint in the UK in advance the easier the rest will fall in place.
  12. Spend the money get an agent, let the agent know you hope to offset the move costs (as its works related) against tax in coming years. As for visa you can look at skills list and also know that FNQ is part of a special zone classed as remote living with appropriate visa's.We entered on a remote works visa years back, now citizens. As for property secure an air bnb have a look around, suburbs vary vastly. If I lived back there I would be looking at Redlynch area. Just left Cairns after 7 years, the summers got to us both in the end. Cairns sits in a bowl shape valley, as does the humidity. Moving now to cooler less humid climate.
  13. When planning route back look at Singapore you have then returned from a green status country via a green status country. Routes via the middle east now require a quarantine on return. Even if you have both jabs, although its shortened to 5 days.
  14. Maybe not hard for you or as you perceive it. I have a service dog that needs to be transported with us, plus other issues that are nobody's concern. Covid has made it all but impossible for us now in our situation.
  15. I cannot see things opening up for at least another year and life is what passes by while you wait for the opportunity. So house sold, have a van moving off see what happens heading south for now.
  16. Just last week Scott Morrison was in UK, posing for pics outside a UK pub with his team, the other part is referring to athletes being given exemptions, even from Victoria when it was under recent lockdown "as they had spent a long time preparing " quote from Vic dep Premier. Meanwhile as I said people cannot even travel interstate for personal affairs and relocating overseas has become troublesome. WTF indeed. As soon as things settle down a bit and we can take our dogs reliably, we are out of here, 9 years in the bin company wound up and house sold already. Its all about populist politics with this lot. https://www.news.com.au/finance/work/prime-minister-scott-morrison-visited-not-just-one-pub-on-his-uk-visit-but-three/news-story/442d67be936b584a619d88533f593259
  17. Unfortunately a fair bit of red tape, plus depending on which route you take a possible stop over, look into relocation flights (inbound) as they occasionally offer direct Darwin to Uk/Europe flights on flight out Meanwhile whilst we have to apply for exemptions and struggle with navigating it all, Sco mo visits English Pubs with his team in what he previously stated is a Covid ravaged country, and athletes grin on TV about attending games in Japan. Madness really Good luck with the move, we are holding tight as we are struggling to get our Dog back right now
  18. Cracks me up, the dirty water in rivers has more to do with. Crappy development, water rights going to large corporate farms, people hooning up and down waterways in jet skis, boats etc.
  19. Sunshine coast or gold coast
  20. Hi all, well Covid threw us a curve ball initially was returning to UK/Europe but now staying in Oz happy with the decision. Lived in Cairns 7 years and over it, sold our house in Cairns and heading South. I will be running my own business Mental Health and remote and wilderness first aid, my wife is a bookkeeper. Neither of us is interested in an apartment nor paying a premium to live on or near a beach, spent 14 years living on an island so been there and done that. After a 3 bed house garden and large garage type set up. Just undecided on GC or Sunshine Coast, heard the sunshine is hard for work ? Any how any input on experience or areas to avoid or live would be great. Cheers
  21. Gary H

    Missing the UK

    Good on you for reaching out to a GP, right now you can get 20 sessions covered by medicare with a psychologist or other professional on referral. Anxiety is the most common mental illness in Australia and effects people differently. As for PTSD it's not just for military that's a very common misconception that is put right very quickly in any support group, and amongst professionals. One of the benefits of Australia compared to UK is access to services for mental health problems. Whatever you decide try and do it with a clear mind, be kind to yourself and allow yourself time to work it out. I have been where you are, as an ex remote medic with a history of severe PTSD and all it's accompanying mates, One of the things I can thank Australia for is helping me get fixed again. Now I have a clear mind, I still plan on UK but when time is right and covid pulls its head in.
  22. I was answering the original post. Variety is/was pre brexit far better for most goods in UK. Do I have enough variety here sure I cook fresh, I also lived in SE Asia remotely for 18 years, so variety here again is better but not as good as UK. Seafood and fish Over 70% of seafood in Australia is imported, I work with the seafood harvesting industry in FNQ, believe me the good stuff is sent overseas to a higher paying markets. Fresh Veggies are available of course they are, but from my experience the most expensive I have ever purchased, it was cheaper to buy Australian avocados in Singapore then here madness. What do I want that's not here in oz food wise nothing, but that wasn't the original question. As I said I shop with intention to buy seasonal foods from source whenever possible. I have access to the FNQ tablelands so lucky in that respect. In Uk I had access to Kent farms so same applied. I use specialist Asian suppliers for other ingredients pastes etc . Coles and Woolies are just a duopoly I try to avoid
  23. No Comparison on variety, services offered, choice and cost in supermarkets UK is years ahead. Farmers markets are the go up here in FNQ, although you have to be careful on choosing seasonal goods or risk remortgage.
  24. The Inner peace crap is powerful, was due to move back last July but COvid put the brakes on, it would have been financial suicide and still is with work and starting again. We are still biding our time, weighing up options. Have more options here right now, it's just relocating from Cairns down south or stay put and move back to UK as originally planned. The draw is to UK despite the head stating stay in oz and move to QLD/NSW border. I'm almost obsessed with thoughts of the colder weather, feeling mud on my boots again, proper fishing, cheap food stalls, family being nearby, and even the prospects of crappy rainy days v crappy hot and humid days. If I could guarantee flights and moving my dog and best mate back easily I would. Until then it's tic tock and be patient.
  25. You can get a debit card now linked to crypto that will stop you from having to change back to Fiat and getting heavily charged at an exchange.
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