Thank you everyone for lots of ideas / thoughts. Realistically, I cannot find $129,000 dollars for uni there, even if I stayed here and waited out the 143. My other annoyance though is that when I put in application, wait time was 38 - 44 months, therefore daughter was dependent, hence why applied with her on thec143. By the time it comes through potentially she will not be classed as dependent anymore ( to old to be ) so why did I pay for her part on visa. I paid on the understanding it would be through based on their guidelines . A question for someone somewhere in visa dept ?
Getting so frustrated and stressed