Thanks Pom Queen,
That was lovely to get some encouragement, thanks! And for the vauable advice about the 6 month turning point, something to remember.
Tbh I have spent so much time thinking about it all, that I've almost forgetten why I applied for the job in the first place which was beacuse I have always wanted to live in Oz, having visiting very many times. I't s real rollercoaster of a decision isn;t it! I know my husband feels conflicted too (though happy to give it a try) and my eldest child is not that keen.....but I know shed love it' once she got there......
The company is a charity working in healthcare and research so I'm not sure they will have many incentives, other than annual pay increments so I don't think I could count on anything like that.....but that does remind me to ask.. (sorry another question) iIth the recipricol health agreement between the UK and Autralia, do you know if that means we can access all heathcare as we would in the UK (bearing in mind a 457 visa?).
Thanks again!