Mushahid

Hi,

 

My family and I want to start the ball rolling to move to Oz.... eek!!! I will be the main applicant and am unsure if my qualifications are sufficient to satisfy skilled visa migration requirements.

 

I am 31, a qualified Food Technologist with a Masters Degree in Food Safety Management and 11 years work experience. Will my masters be considered enough without the bachelor's degree? (I was accepted to complete the masters without the bachelors as I was working within the food industry already).

 

Any advice is greatly received :biggrin:

 

Alysha

Hi

Got my MSc Cybernetics from Uni of Reading , and Management degree from London . However during my Engineers Australia assessment , they just accepted my Masters degree as an equivalent of an Australian Masters.

Got my education points on the basis of Bachelors and Masters . PhD is more points, I guess.

I sure hope Masters will be considered enough as long as it satisfies the basic criteria of occupations list....etc

Always best to seek Mig Agents or Registered Agents Advice...

All the best

No point in talking to my wife......She never understands...

As for me .......I am happy in a way that I was correct

Infact never believed in marriages...Never will ever...

Marriages are a headache and ...we all learn from our mistakes.... is my conclusion

Love is pure in its original form ...Marriage makes it impure....

So people...please don't tie the knot....let your life be a simple flowing ribbon of love and peace....Tie the knot...and that's the end of it...

have neither of you discussed the details of the holiday..did she just tell you she was going on holiday and not discuss it with you??

Nope...we had planned and arranged to go to Perth and out of nowhere her parents asked her to come to Canada with them and she obliged...Not caring to ask or discuss with me..!!

I was wondering the same!

 

If I decided I wanted to go and visit my parents then I would. My husband wouldn't even dream of stopping me and wouldn't be able to anyway as he isn't in charge of me.

 

I packed up a 4 bedroom house with a baby and a toddler while my husband was out here before me and it was no big deal.

She is going on a holiday with her parents.... .not visiting them.....

I love my wife...thats why I am thinking why would she go on a holiday with her parents and not with me......

Now maybe I read this differently to you, but he said she was going to Canada WITH her parents, not to visit them. He also said he suggested they go together from Australia.

To me that is her taking a holiday without her husband. This is fine if it is agreed on before hand, but I would never expect my husband to just tell me he was going on holiday without me. To me this would be close to being the relationship over. She is showing no respect or consideration for her husband, who if she loves him, should come first.

You understand my dilemma perfectly..Blossom 79

...I am thinking the same thing...Why would she want to go on a holiday without me ...! She has shown very less respect and consideration...to be honest..

Mushahid, perhaps a controversial question, but do you come from a cultural background where women are expected to defer to their husbands? If so, is that why you are so upset?

Nope ..No cultural thing ...she does what she wishes to do...We dated for years before we got married...We understand each other perfectly..I love her very much and she does too...But.....Sometimes...I get confused...about the way she does certain things and takes decisions like these...

Agree that it could just be that she needs some time with her parents....but still a bit of a strange time to be taking a holiday when im sure there is so much to do.

 

Of course we all want to say bye to family before we leave, we travelled all over the UK and Ireland saying our goodbyes, but we did it as a family, not a you go to see your mum and i will go and see mine affair.

 

Could she be getting cold feet about the move to Oz? happens to the best of us in the run up to jumping on the plane. Maybe she just needs a bit of space to think thru her thoughts. She might not be wanting to burden you with the what ifs/buts.

 

If this is bothering you then 100% you need to talk it over

I hope she is happy and satisfied after this trip with her family...And it will make my life more easier ..without her complaining that I didn't let her enjoy enough time with her family.....So..I guess I will let her have her family time ....even though it is bothering me..slightly....

What do you think her response would be if you said that you were dropping everything and would take to time to go with them to Canada. Do you think that she just wants this time alone with them before she leaves, and not knowing when she will see them next? You really need to have a clear the air talk with her to find out what is going on.

She would probably agree to me joining her on this trip ...

I really want her to have a good time with her family and maybe she does want some time alone with her family....

The only thing which I want is her to have a good time....

Give her the space she needs to put things into perspective as she may be getting cold feet about the move. It probably feels a bit unreal to her at the moment and she may feel she needs to escape the pressure of it a bit.

Have a chat with her and tell her how you feel and that you understand how she must be feeling. I would not take it as a problem with the relationship or the commitment she has towards you or the move. Women just tend to over think things and it gets very confusing with all those thoughts and emotions - well I do anyway!!

I'm sure things will work out well as long as the communication between you stays strong and positive and you give each other the space you need.

We do communicate well and discuss things quite openly..and I am happy that she having a good time with her family..

....just that sometimes I feel..she should just listen to me......

Husband wife relationship is based on understanding, respect, trust, strong commitment & team work. You are not wrong in your thoughts, but your wife didn't think in this way, particularly, when you are in process of shifting,packing etc. It's not that she doesn't love you but 'team work' & 'respect' element is missing.

 

You asking 'I love her more than she loves me?' well I guess love is still there but it's about giving importance to someone. I may be wrong but in me opinion when we are in relationship we should be more loyal & committed to our Partners as they are our 'Priority'. I tell you I recently met a couple (married for last 1.5 yrs only) and was amazed to know that husband is so much in love with his mother, sister & niece (6 yrs old)that he keeps telling his wife that he is more loyal & committed to them than to her,infact they argue mostly cause of them (typical scenario)

 

In relation one partner is dominant & other submissive. In this case, you are submissive as you care for her and don't want to upset her.

 

My advice is don't think too much, you are absolutely right, you can talk to her about it when she is back, discuss things openly and explain her how you feel all this time.

 

Best,

 

Aussie Girl Bay

...I hope she loves and respects me as her husband ....as I love and respect her as my wife....

Have you talked to your wife about this? Does she have any clue its upsetting you so much?

Its not upsetting me.....Its kind of...an uneasy (Between Upsetting and Sad) feeling...I mean..I spoke to her about this..And she asked me..Can't she travel alone without me.....

I said..Of course she could travel ....It's her wish....

How can I explain to her that it would be better if she went together with me...rather than with her parents....Then it would upset her...And I know my wife...she would cry ...Which I dont want her doing...Because I absolutely hate to see anyone cry....

Yeah...I guess she has a 50-50 % split plan to be loyal to both me and her parents...!!!

Does this mean..I love her more than she loves me??? Concerns me...! Coz I would definitely cancel my Canada trip and plan it later ...to visit with her..together...just to make her happy and see her happy!!!

Now she not doing that means... she does not love me more or...does she love her parents more than me!!...

Is there anything to worry about if ..someone loves their parents more than their spouses..!!???

Wrong post

OMG.......Extremely happy today......

got my visa granted today..

subclass-175 VE:mad:

lodgement date-24/06/2008

co allocated-2/11/2012

medical done-12/11/2012

medical referred-11/12/2012

visa granted-30/01/2013

:laugh::laugh:

CONGRATS....

But I have to say it took rather long for your PR to be granted...

Nevertheless...Cheers...

When u planning to move..

And to add...I believe that whenever my time has come...I cannot avoid it....So be it in a plane, or walking down the road......If I have to go...Then so be it..

Not Yet...Not Just yet....( Gladiator last dialogue by Djimon Hounsou)

Cheers...

To all the Flying phobia people....

Terrifying ordeal you had to go through . I am absolutely terrified of flying....And Bad pilots and weather ......Believe me I have clocked more than a million miles ....and never have i felt relaxed through out my flight time...all my life....Still I constantly Imagine better ways to travel than flying...I use Road transport where ever I can find road access......

No one can beat me in the "fear of flying "contest...lol:)...

I will be flying to Perth in two weeks time and hope for ZERO Turbulence...I am Flying Emirates or Singapore Airlines...Not because of expert pilots or less turbulence...But I have always used Emirates, Etihad and Singapore Airlines to Fly to UK and other Mid East work destinations...I liked these airlines...

Very Informative. Could you please provide contact number of the short term rental . I will be flying in next 2 weeks and need to arrange accomodation.

Thanks

Congrats on your ss. I also have WA ss. Will move to Perth next month...

Heartfelt Condolences

Do you have a visa already?

Yes, I have a Permanent Residency Visa

Are you interested in BMS or do you know anyone who is interested

I am interested to know if anyone wants to start or buildup on Building Engineering Services company in Perth or Western Australia . I have experience on Honeywell- Trend and Alerton systems and Johnson Controls Systems .

I have contacts with BMS companies : TREND, Alerton , Johnson Controls , Siemens and Schenider .

I am also looking for PhD opportunities to complete my Education Ladder , so I hope to offer you some suggestions :

Some of the top rated universities are Uni of Sydney , Monash , Uni of Western Australia .

NOTE: PhD in New Zealand is Local domestic fee rate , ie NZD 5600/-to 7000/- only . ( AMAZING FEE STRUCTURE OFFERED BY NZ ONLY FOR ALL PhD STUDENTS- DOMESTIC OR INTL)

But the main factors to consider before starting any study course are:

1. Field of study( Engineering , Science , Arts , Medicine etc)- Bachelors, Post Grad, Doctorate , Post Grad Diploma , Trade certificate etc

2. Fees and Scholarships or grants

3. Location and region

4. University Ranking and Rating ( If you really care)

5. Campus Recruitment and local job market

6. Career oriented courses at particular universities

Hope this helps

Cheers

Mushahid M

Consult an Agent who specializes in Australian Visas and Immigration. There must surely be a Visa suitable for you . Be Positive....

Best of luck....

Hey guys

 

Flying to Melbourne next Wednesday from Glasgow and have a connection in Dubai. I have 1h 55mins between flights and was just wondering if this is more than enough time to be able to grab a bite and a smoke and have a quick look around the shops in Dubai Airport.

 

Having never been there before any advice or experiences would be much appreciated

 

Cheers

Dubai Intl Airport is really big and it takes time sometimes to get to the correct Boarding gate terminal , as there are hundreds of Boarding gates...I suggest you get your Boarding pass and then do your shopping in the Duty Free zone and njoy .....

Cheers

I would love to visit Hobart....Heard a lot from Danny Bhoy, the scottish comedian.,.....