Got my spouse visa granted today!!!
Much earlier than expected - I applied in mid-July and was told that the processing time was 6-8 months.
However, following advice given on this forum, I e-mailed my CO on Monday for an update as I had just passed the 5 month mark.
I was e-mailed right back with the info that I should expect it around 18th Jan (which was 6 months from application).
Much to my surprise I received the confirmation of a visa grant e-mail today!!! And it was the sub class 100!
What a great Christmas present!
To put others' mind at rest, I heard nothing from my CO throughout the entire process - except to request a copy of the marriage certificate which we forgot to include in the original application!!
Really big thanks to everyone who contributed to this forum - it was such a resassurance to know that I was not alone.
Good luck to those still waiting...