Hi Alex, sorry to hear what has been happening, but think it's such a chance thats worth taking by carrying on with the visa. My sister, was due to go out with her long term boyfriend, she got the go ahead and her boyfriend told her a month before they were due to go out that he wasn't going, and had met someone else! She went on her own, knowing no one. 5 years later, she is married with a baby on the way and has just bought her first house....in sydney!! sometimes no matter how bad things feel, they happen for a reason. Hope these posts give you the confidence to go for it! Good luck, and wish you all the best! :)x