Thank you Cath for your response it's a good feeling to get a reply and you hit it right on the head about not feeling so alone and knowing that there others on this site with the same anxieties helps, plus we have similarities so I will be interested in following your progress. What area will you be heading for, are you considering renting or buying both are so expensive. Also I would like to know is it worth taking your car over as mine isn't that old and not a great deal of mileage on it either. I visited my daughter last year and looked at prices of cars I couldn't believe the cost of old second hand cars, hence i would be interested if anyone has taken their car over and how expensive and difficult is it. I'm visiting again in November and no doubt will be checking prices out. By the time I come back it will be decision time do I go for it or will reality tell me differently - scary! Gina