Hi, this is my first post and I understand everything you are saying. Ive been reading these blogs from 2008, before we received our ss 176 visa in June 2010. We moved to South Australia in June 2011 with our 4 children (bringing everything and selling the rest !!) We struggled to drive around and find somewhere we were comfortable with (we were looking for good schools with jobs available in a decent area with not too expensive rentals - maybe expecting too much in hindsight !!). Anyway we moved to Victor Harbor, a beautiful place but its just not enough for us, my husband found work after 12 weeks and completing an expensive licensing procedure to be self employed as there wasnt any jobs as a wall/floor tiler (that was really hard as he has always been the main earner bless him !!) but he really struggled to be accepted in the area even with his fantastic references, qualifications and 15 years experience in Uk and Germany, anyway the kids made friends at school but dont play out with friends as they live too far away, this was affecting 2/4 as they were so used to playing out with friends !?!, I am a qualified accountant but havent completed the conversion course in Australia so applied for 50+ various accounts assistant/office positions (part-time to be there for the family) - unforetunately the loacl job services think that its because im an outsider and my career is not in demand that i havent got a job, and where we live, so i am, at present, having a major career rethink ( i began nurse training pre children and had a job in aged-care for 10 years) so im taking part in a cert 3 in aged care - why not !! Anyway my eldest son (yr 12) has settled in great but is missing the action, my 13 yr old says the school is rubbish and they dont learn him anything - he is achieving what is expected with no effort according to his report(he was always in the upper half of his class and was never bored - bearing in mind we lived in the best school catchment area in Northumberland) my younger children, well one is lost as he feels as if he has no friends/playing out after school and my youngest says why do we have to be in the car forever just to go anywhere !! This is not to say that theyre not settling as the same children are nearly getting their p's driving and has a body board, going surfing and playing cricket in the summer, body boarding and playing cricket and swimming at the lake (the little ones !!) So its not all doom and gloom, we have friends which we bbq with once every 2 month aswell - its just not enough. We had a decent life in the Uk we just wanted better - HELP!! Me and my OH dont want to give up as we believe that Aus has what we want, we just dont know where ?? (Oh and my OH and I miss a social life at the pub - does that happen ??) We have thought about moving interstate to Queensland ( near the Gold Coast as it seems like it has all things that we miss !?!?) and are really scared about the big move again but willing to go through the unsettled feeling to get it right for our family !! CAN ANY ONE HELP - ANY ADVICE WOULD BE SO WELCOME:biggrin: