Sorry to hear this... But I would think very hard about the move back to the uk. I would seriously NOT come back to the uk. It is a sespit I would take your rose tinted glasses off and stay where you are... I don't mean to appear rude in anyway at all but this country has gone down the pan so much... they call australia the lucky country for a reason Don't make the mistake by returning to the uk it has not a great deal to offer anymore unfortunately