It will get done but not without the org skills of a great mum x don't underestimate how brilliant you are that's all id say... Break it down is good advice & go into denial (that's what I did) I'm here 18 months on 3 kids 1 on the way xx
18 months in and loving every second
Not cheap to live but all the fun is free
Never going back .... We both work have a live in nanny and a beautiful house right by the beach every weekend is a holiday ..... Even in winter