Englishlover

Hi Pommiaussie, I dated some English in Australia. This guy is only one living in the UK. Thanks for your wish anyway. My LDR has been ened. I will never have any LDR again.

Yes, Tina2. Even I can go there for 6 months (visitor), but I do not have enough feeling to invest it so hard.

Hi Pommyaussie thanks for sharing. I do not think it is strange, but I think it is just different.

I cannot, and I am not thinking to live there without him. Anyway, it is already over. We broke up now.

"I wonder if you are holding on to this because of your love not for him, but for Britain, which you seem to love. He gives you a link to that doesn't he?" Can you explain this sentence more before getting apology? Does it sound like I use him for Britain (if it is rewritten). Please teach me English. Sorry, I am not native-English speaker.

I have given him ultimatum

It will end soon this time if there is no progress. I have given him ultimatum.

I mean I can live here (citizenship) with job. I tried to explain that I dont need to use him for Britain (like Peccavi mentioned) if life is already good here.

Please research all my post history and you will find out that my man has fear of flying. It is very hard for him to come here. I already have got a job and the right to stay in Australia. Moving there is only to live with him.

Hi Tony, you can call me EL I dont mind:) My first name is quite long for English.

I am sorry for making you or anyone else here feel that you waste your time, and I did not mean to play with anyone's emotion here. Yes, I have been here for about 3-4 years and asked similar questions. Maybe, the problem is myself, not him.

No worries

Hi Roborac, it is me. It is a genuine post. I came across this website because my fiance is English. I always dated English in the past and found that they are nice and gentle. In addition, I like everything about England since I was a teenager , football, history for example. Do you think someone just made the fake post?:twitcy::twitcy::twitcy:

Hi Debs, Thank you. You might be right. I asked him again last night what he wants to do now. He said he is thinking. I have told him to make a decision soon.

"now you have to defend the situation to us!" I love this

Oh sorry to hear that. I always think that this will be my last long distance relationship in my life. It is very hard and unhealthy.

Hi Tina, I am afraid I cannot work when I have visitor status. Thanks anyway.

Hi Tina, I am too old to get working holiday , none of my grandparents are English

Thank you again everyone. I feel so thankful for your advice. I will wait a bit longer for few days and see what will happen and then take action.

I went to Kirribilli few years ago, but you need to get the spot to sit early. I have just seen this thread so it might be too late now. It is not far from the city, but you still see firework very close. But guess what, I had to be there around 1500 to get the spot and waited to see the firework at 2100 and then 2400. I swear I will never do it again!!! However, I think you can also go to Circular Quay. It will be packed but I suggest you to go only 30 mins before it starts . You can still see firework even it is a ringside seat.

Hi PommieAussie Yes, I am an Australian. I can go there without applying visa and stay for 6 months without work permission. However, I do not want to go like a visitor again. I need the relationship to be progressed. The reason I have been with him (LDR) for 5 years because nobody is better than him. I know that he might have commitment problem. He had only 2 gfs in his life before he met me and it was only few months last long. I am just trying to understand him and hope he will eventually get out of the fears he has.

Thank you. I have asked him again today. He is sick in bed and told me he needs time to think for few days. I will have to be in a limbo for few more days Sent from a laptop on desk via very slow internet

Hi Jac2011 I visited England for 4 times. We mostly went on trip. I have not met his family yet, but I went to his place. Nothing looked suspicious in his place or his personal stuff like phone, emails. He never went away when he was on the phone.

Thank you everyone for your advice. I just cannot understand why he makes it so difficult. I have been living in Australia for 9 years, having a job, but I am ready to start everything again in the UK even I do not know my future there. Maybe it is right that he does not love me at all.

Hi Pom Queen Thank you for your comfort. He will not come to Australia. We have planned the move to the UK for me. I have told him I can do spouse visa for him if he wants to live in Australia, but he wants to live there so I am the one who will move.