So, after two years and four months, the decision to return back to the U.K. has been made. Not an easy thing as we are a family of four, and all have our own opinions of what is best for our future. My wife has an elderly mother and the last few months has been up and down health wise, so that is a big concern for her. My eldest has just started high school, so he is starting to fit and settle a little more, and will probably miss Australia more than he realises, even though he didn't settle initially. My daughter has never really settled here, even though she made lots of friends very quickly, when relations left after their visits she was unconsolable for days. And that leaves me.
At first it was hard, but an adventure. after a week I found work, being a carpenter it was a bit strange to adjust to Australian ways and terminology they use, and still is to be honest. But the building industry is always volatile, and jobs came and went. since December it has been an absolute nightmare, having worked only about six or seven weeks since mid December. Rent has gone up, as it does, bills come in, but work has dried up.
We started talking about going back a few months ago, so we booked return flights, we said we would see how we felt after that. but now we see it as an opertunity to sort out schools and accommodation for when we go back for good.
Yes Australia has warmer weather and an outdoor lifestyle. but it is unbelievably expensive, and despite the efforts of advertising campains across the world, not that friendly. I went to watch Wigan Warriors play the Roosters a couple of weeks ago, and it made me realise how much fun the brits are, and started to miss being there soon after the game.
Push has now come to shove, and its time to start the process of returning to blighty. Will I regret it, possibly, that's what I've got to live with. but I wont be back.