We were set to move a couple of years ago, had started the whole visa process, we were firmly on the road to moving then both mum and dad had major health issues, we very nearly lost dad, mum had major open hear surgery and because of dads on going health problems he can never fly again, he can't even go to our family place in France so it pretty much stopped us dead in our tracks!
As harsh as it sounds we are now waiting for some resolution to dads condition, if you know what I mean, before we do anything about it, there is plenty of time, we just both have to come to terms with not being where we want for a few years.