I used to be absolutely terrified. The first time I flew I had white knuckles all the way, dry mouth, couldnt eat anything and never used the toilet. I sat absolutely petrified all the way, listening for every bang of the engine and every little change, and that was just a 2 hour flight to Spain! Then we got brave and flew to Florida..halfway over the Atlantic I noticed the sun was on the wrong side of the plane. A passenger had passed away on the flight and we were being diverted to Glasgow, where we spent the night in the Holiday Inn and had to start all over again the next day as the crews flying hours were up.
Since then I have flown back and forward to Australia many times, visiting my hubbys family. I still dont like it much, but now its the boredom of the flight that gets to me more than the fear of flying. Only one time was I scared, and that was on a flight to Adelaide, (at the same point in the flight as a previous poster said) over the Bay of Bengal, we hit really bad turbulence, on a Qantas flight. The stewardess was handing out coffees when we dropped like a stone and she droped to her kneew before scuttling off...meal trays were sliding onto the floor, people were screaming,and overhead lockers were opening up and stuff flying about in the cabin. Now THAT was a tad unsettling! LOL...not for my hubby though-he slept through it all!
Now I just say to myself..the crew do this flight day in and day out and they are all calm and getting on with it. If its my time then its my time and theres nothing I can do about it. I try to get into an onboard film or two, and I even walk around the cabin sometimes, and HAVE to use the toilet on long haul LOL.
I cant say I will ever LIKE flying but at least I can tolerate it better now than I used to. Wish the seats were softer though!