Hi Hanna, I'm a bit obsessed about the spider as well, but the way i get round it, is by looking at biology:
Spiders are out for survival to feed and to pro-create , therefore, their main ambition just like any other speices is suvival .
Humans just don't taste too good and neither are they any good to mate with! HE, HE!
SO have no fear they don't need us , so they certainly won't be looking for us .
You leave them alone , they'll do the same to you.
I remember i used to be scared of bumble bees , but the same applys , do i look like a flower..no .so why worry?
Hope this makes you feel better
