Any guys leaving a parent behind in the UK

[WelshDebzs]

Originally Posted by kia1

well my stepson is nearly 16 and his mum did say that she couldnt stop him going soon and he lived with us anyway.
but we typed a letter up and she signed it if you need a copy of the letter i will send you what we wrote in it. we thought there would be more hassle but thankfully there wasnt just be nice to him until hes signed lol
i would mention if he doesnt sign that you are prepared to go to court and make out that if you win he will have to pay your costs aswell.
and yes he is better with us a couple of weekends ago she told him he couldnt come for the weekend as the food they had was for them she doesnt get money for darren lol honestly......
and then when he went last weekend he got told by her that he wasnt allowed to go into the cupboards all he had on sat was one bag of crisps i went and got him
she smokes,drinks and just thinks of herself i never have liked her...........
wow that feels better
let us know how you get on
paula

Thxs Paula

Sorry for the late reply...........

Well we told him it went quite well as in no screaming or shouting but he hasnt mentioned it since!

Bit like Mrs C really when my son went there for the weekend he just said you can always come and live with us if you want so I dont think we will be going to court thank goodness

Can I ask guys did you have to say you were bringing them back for a vist up to the age of 16??

How much did you pay for the solicitor's letter , if you dont mind it would be great if you could send me a copy of the letter

Hi Leigh

Is there no way you can get over there to join your mum. I know its not an easy choice had you been to Oz before your mum decided to go?? We just asked our eldest to give it 2 years as thats the lengh of the visa he will be over 16 by then so it will be up to him by then!!


Thanks Guys

Debzsx

[Leigh]

Hey Debz, im planning to get over to melbourne next january to be nearer to my mom but my partner and I are going on a reccy in august to see what he thinks of it. If he gives it a thumbs up then its all systems go! I had never been to australia before my mom moved over no, but i think its a great place. The only thing I would change would be peoples racial attitudes as I sometimes find that they are a little outdated. But hey, we can change that!!!


xxx

[WelshDebzs]

Great Leigh

Glad your thinking of going over eve if its just to try.

Good Luck

Debzsx