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Originally Posted by jazza
Thanks Jo - would you go out to Oz if you had a 10 year old and the whole process took 2 years?? Am I being selfish to think that Oz could offer a new way of life and taking her away from her friends??
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Hi
It's certainly a difficult decision to make. I must admit I would be thinking even longer and harder about it if our kids were older - that's why we're going now - now is the time for us.
We're going to Perth because we went in 1997-98 on Working Holiday Visas and just fell in love with the place (sounds corny I know, but it's true) We came home when our visas and money ran out decided to settle down - got a mortgage, got married had 2 kids, but have never felt 100% settled, so we've got our chance to go back and we're taking it. I think it's really brave of anyone to go without having been before.
I worry about taking my kids away from everything they know, but I'm confident that they'll adapt and make new friends because they're still so young. If your daughter seems happy about going then I'm sure she'll be OK, but I can understand what you mean about her starting high school - that's when they really start to want their mates rather than their Mum. I just keep thinking of all the new experiences and opportunities our kids and our extended families will get out of our move to Oz. I wonder whether, if you don't go, your daughter will end up going off backpacking there when she's older now you've put the idea in her head! You could all end up there anyway!
Just take things one stage at a time - first I'd find out for sure whether you'll get the visa - speak to Ian Harrop Assoc or one of the other agents and see what they say.
It's a big decision - sorry I can't help you more - we're definitely going, but I still have moments of doubt - I think we've just got to go because we know we'll regret it if we don't.
Best wishes with your decision,
Jo