I haven't added to the poll myself as I haven't read the negative post that is going around as :
1) we have our visa now and feel that we are on our way and want to make our own opinion of the place and not be led by other's opinions. I personally come on here to have a laugh which has eased the frustration and worry over the visa and now the never ending list of to do's and,
2) by the sounds of it the thread is all a load of arguing about who is right and who is wrong so not interested thanks. I very selfishly take a lot from this site (every now and then try to give my own advice back and hopefully will be able to more when I get there and can help others wanting to find out info) and at different stages along our route have learnt alsorts of invaluable information.
To me this fantastic site is all about finding out FACTS which concern me about the various things involved with emigrating, and being able to make some brilliant friends along the way has been a huge bonus.
My personal feeling is whoever posts these threads, and infact all threads, needs to think that they will be read by potentially hundreds of very different, individual people from different parts of the UK and the world and there is no way that the posts and threads wil be interpreted in the same way by everybody or infact by the author. Everybody needs to think carefully about what they are posting and if they are posting to get up somebodys nose or be malicious then they are probably going to sound very negative, BUT if they are trying to post to help people and give FACTS AND INFORMATION then they are probably going to sound genuine and realistic. I don't think posts have to be negative OR positive but more likely to be useful OR hurtful and damaging......... and therefore useless!
Just my waffle really but if I look to have rose tinted specs on then leave me be cos they were on offer from specsavers
Donna x