Hiya
I agree with joeltah.
Why does it have to be such a black & white decision and why does it have to be made tomorrow?
Also, even if you do decide to abandon thoughts of Oz for the moment, you have made lots of friends on here and
nobody needs to feel excluded from Poms in Oz merely because they conclude that they would not be able to migrate. For the moment at least, I would not be able to migrate either.
Come on, honey. Cheer up!
Would you rather chat on here or on some god-awful site where you don't know who on earth you might be chatting with?
Chin up, chooks.
Hugz
Gill
xx