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Hi Deb
I just wondered what your reasons were for coming in the first place? I am the last person to give advice on staying or going really...look at me, no room to talk whatsoever..hehe...but I just wondered if they are still the same?
I know that when we were trying to make our decision about staying or going, we sat down and wrote lists of for and against for both countries and both lifestyles etc. It helps to get things clear in your mind, as mine was a complete mess...actually not much has changed..hehehe..just kidding!!
I also think it's vital that you and your oh talk about all this, even the not so nice bits. From our experience, i even had one member of my family telling me I was a coward, and that I was lucky Brendan didn't keep the boys and tell me to go back on my own if that's what I wanted. Of course I thanked him for his kind words..hehe...c'est la vie..luckily it's my life and not his..phew!
It will come to you eventually, until then it's a killer, but once it does, and the decision is made one way or another, you will feel better and the pressure will be off a bit.
If there's anything at all, that you think I can help with, please let me know. I've had enormous support on here, and I'm more than willing to help if I can.
My thoughts are with you, good luck with the decision.
Nicky.x
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stay or go?
as you know im in a right pickle of not knowing if i want to stay or go back
,but i really wish you good luck with going back it must have been a tough decision to make hope you & your family get the happiness in good ol blighty your right its not that bad hugzs deb x
