Shellybingobingo

You don't judge people circumstances unless you've walked a mile in their shoes ! He may be a FIFO worker he may be depressed, before people start reading the riot act or saying tuff love ! Think a bit more ! He probably could afford or can afford that car at the time ! but hey ho he asked for advice ! ! I'll just let the wolves descend considering they've been on this site along time ! Have a good evening!

Well ill I don't see any practical advice just shooting someone down ! I think it's rude jockin tas !

do you see what I mean about people on here .... Tough love ! Whatever !

I I understand that Ali ! But in his post it reads he 100percent regrets it and it's all his own doing ! Don't think he needs hear that's more than some earn because what has that got do with anyone else ! Also he doesn't want to hear he needs to become more financially literate ! Bit late for spilt milk ! I'd say

Dont not think that's going help him do you ? Financially literate wtf ! Bank managers psychologists grammar police I've heard it all ! My my best advice to the op don't come on here for advice they just shoot u down ! And say how irresponsible Uve been or move back or u say ya missing home all of a sudden this was the wrong move u won't be happy anywhere ! ! follow your heart ! just needs the riot act reading to him now ! He will sleep wonderfully tonight !

It's here ! ! People turn in to psychologists on here I think ! Or they think they know it all ! Nothing to do with what I'm like as a person but when I hear people bang on about u must not be a friendly person I think people need look in the sodied mirror !

I've decided people just get on my tits full stop . Think ill ill update in twelve month when I've decided what I'm doing .

Ya carny get on if there's not much work around anyway ! people don't come here just to say I know I'll have a whinge today ! These people r old people no doubt probably retired saying how comfortable they r in oz also them that come a while ago hit the boom not the case now ! not so easy ! ! I wonder how many would tell people what they want to hear if they were worried about jobs or didn't have one ! It would be boot on the other foot !

Yes I know u were ! Not being awkward or nothing with u lol I just carny explain without it sounding wrong lol

Yes I know I carny explain so no point me trying it will come out wrong if I tried lol

That wasn't aimed at u niether I must of been typing as u posted ! So my apologies qss

And of course I miss my family son grandson friends that goes without saying

Well I wanted nice weather for starters ! Niaeve I may of been but hey we all human ! And also jobs yes research we did on the job front ! ! It's that things to a down turn as we arrived ! my oh has the skills they need here that is not my issue my issue is how it's been ! So when u spent thousands of dollars pig arsing around for a job when I know it was good in UK I'm thinking what the hell have I done wouldn't anybody ! He's earned a lot of money but we've not seen it for the cost of moving around just for a job ! ! Even the ozzies know if FEED isn't busy then it's going create a knock on effect ! My oh can work in Australia at skill level one has all the desired skills ! So what research didn't we do what is the problem tell me because I'm gob smacked this has happened ! You work so hard in UK get where u wanna be fancy a change nothing wrong with that ! And it's **** from the minute u arrive basically ! Although coming through it now but 3 sodding yrs of ploughing money in it to make it work ! I'm not the bank of pigging England

My hubby commuted a hr and half each way in UK ! He wouldn't get work on his doorstep ! Here now roll out of bed there in 6 minutes lol that's better for him !