Hi Guys
thanks for the comments - maybe good job was the wrong thing to say , perhaps steady/safe (ish) job . I really am in two minds at the moment as to what to do . Go and take the risk and see what happens when I need to come home - my fear is that I am unemployed for a long time when I get home . Or don't go and then regret it for the rest of my life .... argghh decisions decisions !!