I have continued strife about separating myself and my kids from my mum. Just wondering how those of you , that can relate to this, has gone about it ? and what has been the effect on you or your children in moving.?
i am youngest of 3 and my kids are the youngest of 8 grandchildren...mine are the babies 6-10 but they are closer to my mum than the others. She does depend on me but I do too! Although we can bicker too. I do want to go and make a different experience/life for me and my oh. but the kids get so much advice love and joy out of her and she to them ...Iron Lady too mind...not all sweet granny!...but being a 76 yr old widow for a long time with semi good health she knows how to put the guilt on about moving, so has slowed down in recent years and I can see more vulnerable but still strong!
Nonetheless I do wonder if taking the kids away unnecessarily will have a detrimental effect on them and me.? I know I am the only one who can decide but similar stories would be helpful.?