It annoys me when people post questions etc, people respond but the person doesn't ever say what the end result was.
Earlier today my best friend passed away back in the UK. Her mother called to tell me. She told me "dont even think about getting on a plane. You dont need to be in a room of people to show how much you care. We know you loved her". So, im not going to the funeral but i will be writing something that will get read out. When im back later in the year we will do something together as a memorial.
I feel comfortable with this. I will do my own thing here on the day of her funeral.
Thank you all for your advice and for sharing your experiences
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