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Old 14-03-2007, 09:57 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Angry Are we doing the right thing????.....Sorry it's a long story

Ten years ago we moved down to Hastings from South London as we fell in love with it, and at the time it was the right thing to do for our kids but recently it has changed so much and the last year has been the final straw in us deciding to head for OZ!!!! I feel it's time to move on again.

Just a few things that have happened this year in Hastings............
Drugs raids and stabbings galore
Several Rapes
Burglaries & car crimes go through the roof
All cars up our road windows smashed in, scratched and damaged more than once
Our car radio nicked from our car parked out the front
Man beaten up & mugged outside our house
My son been set about by some older blokes
My daughter & her mates with a little sister in tow, being acosted by a peodophile whilst down town on a Sat. morning and a friend was followed home from school
A colleague at work murdered by her drug addict boyfriend
Local skate ramps set alight by chavs
Swing park vandalised and needles found on beach/park etc
My friend being injected with date rape drug in a local club
Younger kids had football nicked from them & then threatened with a knife
Phone box set alight, post box set alight, bus stop smashed regularly
Visiting students continually being mugged and beaten up
My two eldest sons were jumped & beaten up on the school bus
Eldest son's friend became a Dad at 14
Stuff stolen from my garden
A local man attacked with a machette
My dear old neightour who is 91 got her handbag nicked, TWICE
My son's mate has a brain heomorrage coz he was beaten up by Chavs ( because he's a skater boy)
Another elderly neighbour, run over on the crossing at the bottom of our road and left for dead
I could go on , and on , and on...........

And yet today after all that, because the weather was so lovely I took the younger kids to the beach after school, (yes were lucky enough to live near a beach) I was sitting there enjoying the surroundings, the cliffs behind me, the castle, the seagulls, the fishing boats etc.,............. Just for a moment there I thought "Are we doing the right thing? I still love Hastings" .... When out of the blue, a smashed up wreck of a car screeched and skidded up in the car park behind me, six yobs piled out of it and legged it in front of me n the kids along the beach followed by loads of police cars, and coppers chasing after them, tackling them and then arresting them!!!!! I think that has definately answered my question now....... YES YES YES !!!!!!

When I think about it, I will be sad to leave this country, but bloody hell, I cant wait to get away from the people............. (except from the PIO gang of course!!!!!)
Sorry to bore you all with such a long post..... But i feel better now ive got it off my chest!!

SO THE MORALE OF THE STORY IS, TO ALL THINKING ABOUT IT AND TO ALL THOSE GOING THROUGH THE PROCESS......... DONT HESITATE, JUST DO IT...LIFE IS TOO SHORT!! :) HERE'S TO OZ !!!!!
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Old 14-03-2007, 10:12 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Hi Jonesywife,

total agree with you you just gotta do it. It will be better life for everyone and if it isnt you have tried. My mother died when I was 24 and I always live for the day cos you never know where you are gonna be tommorow.

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Old 14-03-2007, 10:20 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Hi Sally-Anne,
Thats a great post and not 'too long'. Thats what will inspire people to get up and go. Of course there is crime in Oz, we all know it. But the rate is alot lower according to the stats and not so violent.
You go Sally-Anne, and we'll see you out there!
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Old 14-03-2007, 10:44 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Well you've just eliminated any doubts I had.

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Old 14-03-2007, 10:53 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Cheers girls
ooooo.. And I did'nt even mention the financial & political side of things.......
GIVE ME MY VISA NOW!!!!!!!!!! aarrggghhhh
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Old 14-03-2007, 11:20 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Hi Jonseywife, i've got one for you.. a schitzophrenic (not sure of spelling) chasing you in your house while your 8 month old baby is playing on the living room floor and she wont leave coz she thinks Mel Gibson lives there..... it took an hour and a half for police to remove her.
Yup that happened to me and frightened the shhh out of me.
OZ HERE WE COME (hopefully!!!!!!)
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OMG, YES get out of there! This is unfortunately Britain of today all over. Don't want to list all my experiences of this awful country as I'm trying to forget.

Yes I love my country too, but the scum that ruin it are overwhelming.
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Old 15-03-2007, 03:52 AM   #8 (permalink)
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We escaped the uk back end of last year mainly for the reasons you list ,,the place is on its arse and i dont think will ever recover,we love Oz yes theres crime but its mainly petty theft ,burglary etc,i'd much rather my kids grew up here although the Uk will always be home!
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Old 15-03-2007, 09:22 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Surely you have made a mistake ? that must be Southampton you are talking about ? ( or Bristol or Brighton or Portsmouth or.............) Thats modern day Britain. BUT don't think it doesn't happen in Oz too ? Probably to a much lesser extent but it does. I read the Aussie papers online most days and like most papers it seems they only try to dig up the bad news ? But Violence on the street or in the home is not just a British problem. So don't go to Oz with your eyes closed . Its not Paradise . But then again where is , Good luck and best wishes "MO"
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