As title suggests . Im sure a lot of people arnt telling their current employer that theyre potentially jumping ship but is anyone doing the process in virtual secrecy??
My best mate knows , my mum and dad know and one other friend , but thats it !!!!!
Not even my sister ........................ absoloutly no one .
I constantly feel bad as i feel like im lying to everyone playing down things like holiday invites and things planned for next year , and when i do finally tell people then i'll be getting it in the neck for not telling them in the first place .
I have my reasons , My business for starters , i havto earn the pennies and work is so scarce at the mo, one whiff of me shutting down and my clients will simply go elsewhere ,
I also have a couple of lodgers and this helps with the house bills , id be re-posessed without the additional income and cant tell them for fear they'll look for somewhere else straight away.
And sadly not telling anyone means i cant share my excitement and journey from initial agent enquiries through to waiting for the visa approval and finally booking that plane ticket .
If im honest i feel excited in myself for the whole adventure and new start of it all , but sad for letting my friends and those around me down , and at times quite alone in the world .
Ive decided to potentially let the cat out of the bag when i submit to DIAC , but that could quite possibly be April or later .....
Thank god u guys are here , id quite simply be going nuts without POI