PomsInOz Forum - View Single Post - Gaining permission from ex to take child abroad!!!

ali · 21-09-2006, 11:18 AM

I've heard that threats such as - we will be going whatever, so if you don't give permission for your child to go too then we will sort out arrangements for you to have them full time and they can come to me for holidays. You don't have to mean these threats, but usually the absent parent who has little or no contact will reconsider faced with 24/7 responsibility, cost etc., I think they usually say no because they want to be difficult, the other thing is say that you won't want any money from them once they move - always a good incentive!!!!

Hope it all works out for you

Ali x

21-09-2006, 11:18 AM	#6 (permalink)
ali Moderator Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Leeming, WA Posts: 7,589 Thanks: 61 Thanked 168 Times in 120 Posts My Mood:	I've heard that threats such as - we will be going whatever, so if you don't give permission for your child to go too then we will sort out arrangements for you to have them full time and they can come to me for holidays. You don't have to mean these threats, but usually the absent parent who has little or no contact will reconsider faced with 24/7 responsibility, cost etc., I think they usually say no because they want to be difficult, the other thing is say that you won't want any money from them once they move - always a good incentive!!!! Hope it all works out for you Ali x __________________ I am too positive to be doubtful, too optimistic to be fearful and too determined to be defeated!