My dilemma that has developed the past 2 days!!
Originally 4 months ago my wife and I, our daughter aged 11 months, a daughter of my wife's whom I have adopted aged 6 and 2 step-daughters aged 12 & 13 planned to migrate with the blessing of my step-daughters father!! :lol:
2 months on, step-daughters father changes his mind and starts proceeds to prevent my step-daughters from leaving the country and now wants residency.
6 weeks on father manages to manipulate the girls to "no way are we going to Oz" :(
My wife decides to give Oz a go and grants the wishes of the girls to live with their father in the hope that they will realise what a massive mistake they may make before we go. :?
2 weeks on my wife decides that she cannot leave her 2 girls behind and pulls the plug on herself, my daughter and my adopted daughter leaving our process in complete pieces.
It's my dream to live in Oz, we've paid our agency fees, skills assessment and my head is firmly where the sun doesn't shine. Visa not through but it will be here one day. I'm 39 and not got long. The future for us all was Oz
and I don't know which way to turn!! :(