Hi Sue first of all
I know it is a nightmare when you first arrive but it does get better!!!
I remember sitting in a car trying to feed my baby new milk that she hated ...looking for a DECENT rental.....thinking please god what have I done...but it did get better.
Living in Oz aint for everyone...but even the people who are 100% happy here have been through what your going through ..it will all come together im sure of it.
