Sorry to hear you are having a bit of a rotten time at the moment. As a fellow nurse I have to say well done for sticking to your guns regarding the tea thing- it should all be part of good care, showing a bit of concern for worried families. I'm not there yet, so not really in a position to offer much advice but it does sound as though you are having a lot of teething problems which shouldn't affect you settling in, in the long term.
Hope you feel better about it all soon
