It's so sad that your dream has ended because of this, I agree that there would be a lot more positive posts, but many people are just to busy and happy getting on with their lives to post anymore.
It does seem that the people who post negative comments have lots of time on their hands, I do not see any value in negative posts that are from an emotional feeling point, you may never feel that way.
It may be your Husband may not be ready yet, like many people we wanted to emigrate years ago, but got put off. This time we are 100% ready and know its the right thing for all of us now.
Hopefully that time will come for your Husband, something will click and he will feel the same.
Nikki x
