Hi Old Pom
I am famous for that which my mother tactfully describes as "impatience."
I think yiou might suffer from the same condition?!

:)
I find that the way to control it is to say to myself, "If you cannot think of something kindly and encouraging to say then the best solution is to stay out of the thread and say nothing at all."
Thank you for sharing your own story with us.
Cheers
Gill